Quote Originally Posted by SeaRay View Post
OK,I posed your question to my wife (of 51 years) .
She said, quote, " Duh, it means you are not spending enough time with me! " . So, now you know, maybe.....
Well if that is the case it puts a positive spin on the relationship. Who wants to spend time with someone they dislike.

I would be careful however to not assume that spending more time with her is the right solution. Encouraging her to find things she wants to do on her own, which means not having your annoying self around all the time, is a better solution. It would even help if she felt a bit guilty for enjoying herself when you are not there.