Most of all look out for the kids. This is very hard on the kids I don't care what anybody says.
Then it will be all about money. She will get more and more (for the kids) but she won't use it all on the kids.
And most of all it was already said do NOT bash the mother anywere the kids can here it. That will destroy the kids.
No matter how big a Bitch she will be. She is STILL there mother.

good luck do wish this on anyone.