I am a lawyer who loves to fish that married a woman who loves to work! Best thing to do is find a rich woman! Self-employment is the way to go, the only way. Set your own hours by how much you need. Forget what you want. Wants are for heathens. Christians have needs that must be met, but the farther we can stay away from the wants of the world the better off we are.
Does that sound like a sermon? It wasn't meant to be, but it is fine advice. By the way, it ain't mine. It is something that I was told that I am trying to learn.

