Sounds like you need to show her who wears the pants in your family. Shoot Marilyn knows better to even say a word when I fish all the time. And she better not even think of getting on my mower. Because I wear the pants in our family as soon as she lets me. I have mine trained to even clean fish, and I showed her who was boss one time also. And as soon as I got where I could open my eyes I could see she was the boss.......