shadboy, being a child of GOD I know you know this. Sometimes GOD takes us through suffering to accomplish HIS will as he did so many of his children all through the Bible...to come out the other side far better than when we started...and sometimes not. He will do one of two things...he will remove the cancer from your wife or he will remove your wife from the cancer. Trials come to the best of us...where we prove ourselves is how we handle it in the midst of where GOD has placed us. May GOD continue to be with you and your wife giving comfort and reassurance each step of the way. Blessings, G