Don't like to get heavy here but to your original post: very good friend had a saying something to the effect "never go to bed or leave for work being mad at a loved one, always make up before you part because you're never sure you'll get to see them again". Dennis was killed in a car wreck on his way home from work on a Friday afternoon just south of Springfield in 2000. His wife and family knew he wasn't mad at them when he unexpectedly couldn't come home. He wasn't rich or famous but his wisdom on that was profound and I sure miss him.