I'm one of the new guys on here and only know a couple of guys here. I do know about cancer though through my work. I will be praying for your wife and your family. God has a plan for each of us.
Bill
Psalm 145:17-20, The Lord is fair in everything he does and is full of kindness. He is close to all who call on him sincerely. He fulfills the desires of those who reverence and trust him. He hears their cry for help and rescues them. He protects all those who love him.