For me it is like this:
Best and most action: palmered marabou and schlappen (or large hackle.)
Durability: tails for sure
Ease of use: tails for me, less mess and simpler
What I prefer: Whatever I have, I know can catch fish on anything I tie with any of them.
All of them have their uses and I hate to be caught without any of them at any time when I get serious about tying.
If you want to see "action" take any size jig and palmer 3 marabou feathers on it starting about 1/4 inch down from the jig head, wrap it tight over the last wrap and keep going til you get to the head. Put that in water and see how it all lays back on a pull and then explodes out when you stop. Have had a Coho Salmon come into 6 inches of water to hit jigs and flies like that more than once.
Kip and squirrel tails can be made to be wide and stay that was so they have the same use but won't have the change in profile unless I have been doing it wrong for all this time. I can get a jig to look really big with both but it didn't have the streamline to puffball changes that marabou or hackle/schlappen give me.
I love taking my kids fishing, now if I could just manage to fish at the same time.