As for the folks @ the church.. you can rinse & go straight to breading, I'm guessing that's what they did works great with a good coarse breading mix. Then you can also go w/ a 3 step process. #1 dip in flour, #2 dip in egg wash (flour helps the eggwash stick), then 3 dip in your seasoned breading. That will give you a thcker breading than just the rinse/dip. Then you can also do a batter dip as opposed to breading. I'm still struggling to find a batter I'm satisfied with so I still need my own help in that dept. 1 more thing, you mentioned you put fillet's in paper towel lined bowl.... I would recommend you didn't dry them that way. The paper towels quickly get saturated & then they are just holding the oil & moisture against the fish. I put them on a... well can't think of what it's called @ the moment... but just a raised grate. Put the towels underneath to catch the dripping grease & not make a mess, but it won't hold the moisture against the fish.
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