Thanks for your input Steve and good points made. There is a line with every one even among "friends or acquantances". Without input from both parties then no one ever knows where that line is drawn and feelings get hurt at some point.

The old saying give a man a fish and he will eat for one night or show him how to fish and he will be able to eat for life. It's like a double edged sword cause when you show him how to fish then your favorite honey holes get fished harder and by more folks.