Just so you know, I am going (that is the plan as of now). I will leave on Saturday after fish fry, and then get home in time to wish my son a happy 3rd birthday, and have a big family throw down on Sunday for him at the jumpy house place.

So, if it were me, I would say come on wife, enjoy the lake and good friends, good food, and good times. Give her a b'day she won't forget... on the lake.