There seems to be some guys hanging around lately that only post when they see an opportunity to rag on somebody. I am sure that you guys are harmless while face to face, but the keyboard buttons give you an amazing boldness. I am sure that you have good reasons for being defensive, and are probably otherwise likeable. So, can I make a suggestion? Use your ignore feature. Once you do this, you wont even see posts made by anyone on your list. No sense in trashing an otherwise good site.