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    Late last winter, a neighbor down the road a bit lost her husband unexpectedly. We (brother and I) dropped off a pickup load of split, seasoned firewood to help her get through the heating season when we heard about it and a bit later, some of her other friends dropped off loads of firewood as well, except theirs was whole and 1 1/2 to 2 1/2' in diameter, no way she and her mid 20's daughter would be able to work it up. She was told by the others that they would be back to work it up for her. Right...........OK................sure......

    I've been driving by that large wood all summer and finally offered to break it down for her at some point, if it wouldn't bother her other friends. I spoke to my brother about it and he agreed we should just work it up. We did some of it about a week ago and rather than hit the pond this morning, I moved my splitter down (it has a side lift for the big monster pieces) and we worked it all up, including a bunch that had been rough split and put in the ground level garage/basement that was too big for her to lift or wouldn't fit through the furnace door. She worked with us moving the newly split wood back in to the basement as we split it smaller, showing us what she could handle safely. To say she was immensely grateful would be an understatement. Helping her and getting this off her to-do list was very satisfying to my soul as well. Although I have other plans this afternoon and won't be able to fish today there will always be tomorrow.

    Yet even as I type "there will always be tomorrow", I'm reminded that tomorrow is promised to no one. Her husbands passing is the perfect example of that. So my day of non-fishing has become much more rewarding than if I had gone fishing and put off helping out someone who really needed and appreciated a neighborly act. Gifts come in many forms and I just got one today in a roundabout way.

    Ken
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    I commend you for thinking of others as you do. We are told that acts aren't what we will be rewarded for, but I find it hard to walk past what I know needs to be done for someone that cannot do it for themselves. Just today the thought came to mind of a verse that says" as you do for the least of my brethren, you do for me." I sometimes have a hard time seeing things that need to be done, and some things I'm no longer able to do. What I have found is that I'm spoken to when something I can do is before me and I know to just get it done. No screaming voice, no knock on a door but just the way we were raised to be who we are and do what's right when the time is here. Some day, some time when you are in the worst shape, someone you may not even know will stand up and be there for you when you need it most. It has happened to me and changed the way I look at things. Good Job Mister.
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    Attaboy 6pound, I'm proud of you. Always good to help our neighbors.
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    that's just being good people, good job guys

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    Well done, sir!!! No doubt, you will be rewarded.
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    You know what it's all about!
    If we did what was most important in life there would be a shortage of Bibles.................and fishing poles

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