Or you could do like me (which I do know I am a very lucky man). Marry a girl that is very laid back and doesn't care how much you fish because she knows I could be doing worse things. In fact after about two weekends of being at the house she starts asking when in the &@$? am I going fishing because I am driving her crazy. Then to boot she works for one of the biggest shooting and marine distributors in the country and I get everything at their cost and a lot at manufacturers cost. Then the conversation never goes toward how much money the stuff is costing us but how much it is saving us.