Article: For all husbands and an update from me.

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I shed a tear when I read this. Stay strong George. Please remember that we are here for you.

I too have experienced the loss like yours, Hazel died 9 years ago. Those that say it will get better are wrong. I didn't turn to drink or drugs, but to meeting more fishermen. Thanks or sharng, it will help. My prayers are with you and others who have lost their partners.

Beautiful lady...thanks for sharing your story. Chuck, I'm sure your advice will help.

very touching story, good luck with your future.

Great story Tap, I read it and have a lot of the same feelings about my wife. You bring a tear to my eyes, take care and may God's peace be with you.

Tap stay strong and your life be rewarded. You had a great wife and she would want you to be strong in your future. I also shed a tear.

Prayers for you friend, Very Touching story, CDC folks are here for ya.

I too lost a soul mate over twenty years ago. Still think about her almost everyday; even though I have moved on. I wished there were magic words. But, there are none for me. The most peace I have found is to stay focused on God and his Son. There you will find many answers. I hope you find yours.
DP

The Good Lord's grace is sufficient to see us thru the shadow of the valley of death. For His children death is a time of rejoicing as the victory has been won. I pray that the Good Lord will continue to shine His grace and mercy upon you as you travel thru this valley knowing in your heart that He will always be with you and will never forsake you. Andy-1Cove

Thoughts and prayers.

I've watched my Dad going through this, in March it will be 4 years since Mom passed away. They'd been married for 53 years. Dad says the thing that keeps him going is thinking of all the good times and the love they shared. And then he laughs and says, but we had some real good arguments too!!

Let your happy times and memories keep you strong.

Tap, I wish I had the magic words to make it all right for you but I don't. Keep the faith and God is always with you. If you allow him, he will heal the pain and allow you to go forward a much better person than you were before you met your wife. She filled a roll in God's plan for you and now the plan changes. Don't be bitter and live in your sorrows, as hard as it is, tomorrow is a new day. Enjoy it to the fullest.
Blessings and prayers,
"gene"

So sorry for your loss.

So sorry for your loss. The unexpected sometime is the worst. I will keep you in my thoughts.

your on the right path

I am sorry for your loss. I am also glad you took the path you are on. Thanks for sharing and may God bless.

So so sorry for your loss, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Praying for you!! Thank you for sharing.

Hey Tap,

I got a question for you...how did a looker like that end up with a mug like yours?!!!

You are lucky to have had time together. I wish you could have had more.

Be strong. May God bless you with peace in your heart.

Dean

Don't give up , she would want you to go on and be happy!

Thanks for sharing....

Tap, this has really hit home with me. I forsook all others back in Dec. of 1985 and we have never looked back. I treasure my wife and love her with the same degree of emotion that you clearly have for your wife. I have no magic words to remove any of your pain, i truly wish i did. I can tell you that your story has brought more than one tear to my eyes and want to leave you with this. Because of your post i am going to re dedicate my love to her and share this story. Your post has strengthened my resolve that there are other good, truly good men out there who hold their wife's in the position that God decreed men do. Thankyou for this post, and God Bless you.

My thoughts & prayers are with you my friend. The good times you had
together is what counts....Memories will help heal.

Prayers lifted above. Just keep running and God will guide you. Brightest Blessings

Recently, I read these lines, written by my friend, Crescent Dragonwagon: "Yes, death is part of the deal --- the price tag for love. I don't know if one ever heals or gets over the death of someone really loved, especially when it was sudden... I think more one composts it slowly over time, and eventually their absence and presence blend and merge and become part of the soil from which you grow the person you become..." Prayers for your peace,serenity and comfort.

George-I can feel your loss through your words. Know that you are doing many of the exact things you need to do to continue to heal and move forward. God Bless you

Praying for you my brother.

WOW man that's a real powerful story and just believe in god and you will see her again one day and you will see that see still loves you too.

Tap..... Your story opened my eyes and affected me. Thanks for sharing in your time of grief. Keep leaning on God ...... He's never failed and he won't in your situation either. Thanks for the eye opening post. I will resolve to never take one moment with loved ones for granted again.

May God bless you during this time and remember that she is and always will be with you in your heart and thoughts. Now let me go and take your advise, thanks you for sharing.

I continue to pray for you. You have so many friends here that want to help. With God's help and these wonderful people, you WILL get through this. Please keep us posted on how you are doing.
Fly

Sorry for your loss. Don't give up.

Excellent story Tap and glad you posted it. Stay strong with the LORD even with the bad.

Behind the crust of you agony lives the glow of your blessings. That crust will never disappear, but one day soon you'll be able to see right through it. God blessed you.

Sorry for you loss , we are all blessed more than we realize till we face life's challenges . Very glad that you are walking with GOD , he will never forsake you .Will be praying for you .

she'll always be in your heart!!!

My families thoughts and prayers are with you brother,so sorry for your loss.

My thoughts are with you and God is always there with you.

Great memories will always be near.