Walked by the cemetery today. There was a fellow sitting out there sobbing and I could hear him saying " why did you have to die? Why oh why did you have to die?" Figured I would console him. Put my arm around his shoulder and told him I was sorry to see his plight and asked if it was his dad. "No. Why did you have to die?" Your brother?" Nope. But why oh why did you have to dir?" I asked then who was it? " My wife's first husband. " he cried.