No no....he means.....new members ought to make friends and get to know others before digging at them because they might not know its tongue and cheek and may be offended.
This is what the rules say.....they are at the very top of every page...just click where its says Site Rules
" Tongue in cheek razzing is OK only if it is obvious, and you know for fact the recipient will not take offense.
In an effort to ensure that “friendliness prevails over everything else” no personal attacks or even negative connotations towards others will be tolerated. Do not negatively agitate or provoke other members. Do not be surprised if your post is edited, moved, deleted or locked (by any Moderator, Super Moderator or Administrator). It may even happen by accident. Do not be offended. We’re just trying to preserve the intention and spirit of the site. We will not debate what we’ve done, although we may or may not provide an explanation. I hate for differing opinions to create enemies.
Replies, criticism or comments about any rule enforcement actions should be done via PM (Private Message) to site Moderators or Administrators"

